I am a psychotherapist with a 16-yr private practice and a podcast, Phoenix and Flame, which is globally ranked in top 5%. I also offer a free online Boundaries quiz, self-study and group Boundaries courses, and speaking engagements.

I have enjoyed the privilege of connecting with my clients over the past 16 years, helping them enjoy more successful lives. When my clients kept saying, "I feel like I'm the only one" I decided to create my podcast "Phoenix and Flame" (tagline: "pushing through and transforming even when you feel like a pile of ash") to build a community of transparency with trauma, struggle, and resiliency so listeners would know they weren't the only ones struggling.

As time progressed, clients began calling me "The Queen of Boundaries" due to how often I noticed the issues presented in session were boundary-related. My experience as a psychotherapist as well as managing the relationship with my narcissistic and emotionally unstable mother has uniquely equipped me to train others in recognizing boundary violations, setting healthy boundaries, and defending them. My passion is to train as many people as I can so they will experience lives that are safe, strong, and free!