Every divorce is as unique as the spouses divorcing. Your spouse may tell you he/she is going to do things, get stuff, or have the judge tell you something. The only thing your spouse knows for certain is that they are just as lost in the system as you are and just like you, he/she does not know what is going to happen next. Do not let your spouse control you through intimidation or capitalizing on your fears. You are in control of your future, your lawyer is your employee – your champion – and as such, has your best interest at heart.