Another untraditional answer-

Deep thoughts here..... recognise that if someone gifts you something unusual.... ask this question? What are they projecting?

Have you ever encountered a person that was either angry or upset or sad or??? What was the action or emotion about? What were they upset /bothered about? Many times a person projects these things but it is actually an inward reflection of themselves. Think about holding up a mirror in front of that person - what do you see bit more importantly and if they are being honest, what would they see about themselves?

I would say that this is a cry for you to help him? Go get him a gym pass now and let him know that you are more than willing to go with him on this new adventure together. His reaction may be ecstatic - he might actually say how great it is and that he’s delighted that this is something for you to do together and to challenge each other.... Better health is always welcome, yes?!?!

But.... If he doesn’t want to do that and was really truly only wanting to give it you, then it might be time to reassess the relationship all together. (Especially if you are comfortable and at peace in your own skin.)

Here’s to your health!